Tuesday, March 30, 2010

An ADHD Wedding Part 4

MY PARTY FOR THE FAMILY TURNED OUT GREAT. WHEN IT COMES TO PARTIES, EVEN THOUGH I’M AN ADHER AND OFTEN SPACEY, I WAS AMAZINGLY ORGANIZED AND HYPERFOCUSED ON EVERY DETAIL IN THIS SITUATION. THE NEXT DAY WAS THE ADHD WEDDING. CLEARLY, MY ADHD SON AND HIS WIFE HYPERFOCUSED ALSO AND DID A GREAT JOB. THEY’RE BOTH VERY CREATIVE AND HAD NICE TOUCHES. ONE OF THEM I’LL ALWAYS REMEMBER ENTAILED EACH OF THEM TAKING A CYLINDER OF SAND( RED AND BLUE) AND MIXING THEM TOGETHER TO SYMBOLIZE THEIR MARRIAGE.. ANOTHER TOUCH WHICH WAS WAS MY SON BREAKING THE GLASS WITH HIS FOOT, WHICH IS ALWAYS DONE AT JEWISH WEDDING CEREMONIES TO SYMBOLIZE THE IRREVOCABILITY OF MARRIAGE VOWS. EVEN THOUGH MY SON DIDN’T WANT A FORMAL WEDDING WITH A RABBI AND A RELIGIOUS CEREMONY, I WAS SURPRISED TO SEE HE STILL WAS CONSCIOUS OF HIS HERITAGE. THE SECULAR WEDDING WAS BEAUTIFUL. THEN, THEY WENT OFF TO COSTA RICA FOR THEIR HONEYMOON, A PERFECT COUNTRY FOR THE ADVENTUROUS ADHDERS.

SO YOU SEE, THERE WERE MANY POSITIVE ASPECTS OF HAVING ADHD ON THIS MEMORABLE OCCASION!

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